One thing that really annoyes me is the people that think they know you, your intelligence and your personality based upon if you'r pierced or not.
I myself is really facinated by piercings. I have 3 piercings at the moment. one in the ear cartilage (first picture), one in the nose (second picture) and one little more private 
  

the reason to why I am writing "at the moment" is because I want to have one or two more piercings. The thought that now arises in most of your minds is prejudices such as, "is she stupid?" or she "She is probably a weird person that will become a murderer" (maybe an exaggerated example but you get the point.)
And that's why I become annoyed. Because a piercing is not a way to measure your intelligence or anything else.  piercing is a way to decorate your body or to just be fascinated by!

Piercings really fascinate me. I for instance thinks that cheek piercings are cool and beautiful
 picture from google

I also think that industrial piercing are REALLY awesome and nice

 picture from google

And I actually cant agree with those who are against people with piercings. Sure I respect that some people are not very fond of piercings but they dont have to judge people that are having piercings. Look at me for instance, I love piercings and can sit and what videos of people getting pierced, I have even pierced myself three times. And still Im a descent human being. I am not some crazy person that will go and murder someone.

The same thing goes for tattoos. You can't have prejudices about a person you haven't met based on his or her tattoos. But the thing about tattoos is that it is getting more popular so it is not so weird anymore if someone has a tattoo.
 
piercing aren't even hurting anyone else. It is your and you decide what to do with it.

when I saw this video I became really pissed of and angry. Mostly because I once were like that. I always compared myself to everone else. I felt that if I didnt have the same things as them, I was in some kind of way worse. Just because I wasnt as thin as "the cool kids" I was worth nothing. I changed my personality totally for them to like me. I loved school and I felt that I was really smart. But then I got to know that it was not cool to like school and to be good and getting good grades. So what did I do? I started to skip school, to party etc. You might think that what does she know about terrible things? Or, she is probably just writing this because she needs to do this. And no, I havent had anorexi or I havent been beaten, but I believe the things I have experienced is in its own way terrible because I changed myself and my personality. I even literally HATED my body, my voice, muy behaviour- everything just because I wasnt as "them". And no, I am not writing this only to get some CAS hours. I'm writing this because I doesnt want people to feel ansd behave as I did. And I didnt even need to to this blog. I could have done something else as for example painting. So please, take my words to your heart and understand that I really mean everything I am writing.

think of if this way, why change because someone called you fat or ugly? even if you would loose 100 kg or make a plastic surgery they wouldn't begin to like you. Because it is not something wrong with you. It is something wrong with them because they have to make other people feel bad so that they can feel good. So as I see it, they are the only losers.

Sure Im not the skinniest person today either but I have learned to listen to what I want and not to let me be controlled by anyone else. I love myself today and I won't let anyone take that from me. I love my body, every curve and why shouldnt I? And the more you love yourself, the easier will it be for others to love you, your personality and your body.

And you might argue that you want to change but you dont have someone to talk to. BULLSHIT! I hurted someone I love very deeply (will not tell who it is because I want him/her to be anonymous since this is post is very much about me and my feelings). I even hated him/her so much. I dont think you can grasp how evil I were. I moved away but after sometime I missed him/her extremly much. the only thing I had to do was to make one call and I got picked up. And he/she still cant trust me today because of what I did but I can go to him/her with anything, from love problems to moneyproblem.

So please! understand how beautiful everyone of you are. beauty is not one thing, its not a model for how everyone should look. Beauty is when you accept yourself and love yourself, thats when you become beautiful to me. because then you show me that you are not affected by the media and that you are smarter than so many people who are starving themselves to become some sceletons.

I have now made some new categories, what they will contain you will have to see later ;)

Hi!

Who am I then? Im a happy,  hard working, weird to some, down to earth, optimistic, kind, humoristic and to some extent normal girl. I live in Sweden and Im soon 18 years old. This blog is sort of a school thing. Im a student at an the IB. know what is the IB you might think. I will not go in to all the details but in IB we first have the Pre DP year where we get to try every subject (not psychology). then the other 2 years are called IB 1 and IB 2, I'm in IB 1. We are studying 6 subjects in IB and my subjects are Psychology SL, math studies SL, Chemistry HL, Biology HL, English HL & Swedish SL. HL and SL are just the degrees of difficulty.

We are also required to do some activites that are creative, active and another were we are helping the society without profiting from it. This blog is for me to be creative.

I will try not to be too formal and boring because I am hoping to reach out to some teenagers and maybe even kids out in the world. You see, this blog is mostly a way for me to spread my thoughts and to evaluate our society.
So, welcome and I hope you will find it worth to continue reading.